Yung MAGNET nga, hindi eepekto kung di mo ilalapit sa bakal at a certain distance. Yung tinatawag na "Law of Attraction" ay hindi ko gusto sa dahilang passive ang dating. Yung idedeclare mo at sasabihin mong "magiging ganito ako" o "makukuha ko ito", kung sa psychology yan, yung pagsabi mo nito sa utak mo ay mas nafofocus siya sa pagiging entitled mo dun sa bagay na gusto mong makuha imbes na magfocus dun sa dapat nyang gawin para maachieve ang gusto nyang mangyari.
Imbes na "Law of Attraction", why not "Law of Direction" (na imbento ko lang kanina, lol)? Which is, ididirect mo ang utak mo sa mga dapat nyang pag-daanan para makuha ang bagay na gusto nyang makuha. Mas naiintindihan ng isip natin ang pagsabi ng bagay na may "action", hindi puro "declaration". Ika nga ng isa sa mga greatest philosopher ng ating panahon na si Marshall Mathers III, "Cause ain't no way I'm let you stop me from causing mayhem, when I say 'em or do something I do it, I don't give a damn what you think. I'm doing this for me."
Hindi mo sasabihin lang na makukuha mo. Sabihin mo sa sarili mo kung ano ang gagawin mo para makuha mo ang gusto mong makuha. Focus on the action
The Ignored Genius
The blog you want your kids to read.
Friday, June 10, 2022
Law of Direction
Sunday, May 8, 2022
Apolitical?
Being actively campaigning sa unang 2 presidential elections na binotohan ko (2004 and 2010), na sumama rin ako sa rallies, nangampanya sa mga kakilala at nagvolunteer as watcher, marami akong naging realizations noon. Naiintindihan ko yung mga tao ngayon lalo ang mga kabataan na nagiging aktibo at sobrang zealous and aggressive sa pagkampanya.
Friday, December 4, 2020
Kamusta Ka Na Kaibigan?
Para kang dinadagukan ng sunod sunod. Tipong di mo pa naiaangat ulo mo para tingnan kung sino ang humampas, may hahampas na uling isa pa. Hanggang parang mamamanhid na lang ang ulo mo sa hampas, at yuyuko ka na lang. Ganyan na ang sitwasyon ng ilan sa atin ngayong taon.
A short message, an sms or a call. Kaibigan, may nangamusta na ba sa yo, or may kinumusta ka na ba? Sa mga tropa at barkada, kapamilya at kamag-anak, sa mga dating kasama. We've been in quarantine for too long, and some of us already learned to live with it and adjusted perfectly. Some are even enjoying it. But there are those whose personality, character, lifestyle and psychology are not fit for it.
Friday, May 29, 2020
Aral o Hinto Dahil sa Covid 19
Sunday, June 23, 2019
Benefit of the Doubt
The first one is that maybe the person is doing bad things intentionally, and the second one is that maybe he is just too stupid to realize that what he's doing is harmful to others despite you reaching out to him about it.
If things go down to this, it is high time to avoid contact with that person as much as possible so you can continue to enjoy your tranquility and safety.
Tuesday, August 22, 2017
Selective Sympathy, Is There Such A Thing?
But frustration and disappointment are different. They must not be mistaken for sympathy. When it is the fireman who burns the house, that's frustrating. When it's the doctor that injects deadly virus to the patient, that's disappointing. But when the thief steals someone's property, you'll sympathize with the victim, but will you get similarly disappointed or frustrated with the thief?
You may also sympathize with the owner of the house that got burnt, and the patient who acquired the virus but you will NOT put in much thought on getting frustrated and disappointed with the thief equalled to how you feel with the doctor and the fireman.
There's a standard, expectation and most importantly "trust" to what roles we expect the fireman and the doctor to accomplish. And yet when they do the opposite, it's frustrating and disappointing, "trust" gets tainted, psyche gets rattled and so we "panic".
While for the thief, we "expected" him to do bad things. If you don't believe me, just think of the reason why you close your doors, put the locks and tighten your security. And it is also "expected" for the thief to face the law and gets penalized for what is expected of him. It is natural to avoid getting victimized by the thief, yet it is unnatural to avoid the doctors in times of sickness or to think that the fireman will be the one to put our houses on fire.
So no, there is no such thing as selective sympathy. There is only sympathy, and then there is frustration and disappointment.
Wednesday, May 3, 2017
His Will But Will You?
Despite having all of these and still not doing anything with them in your life, don't ask God why when you are feeling down. Ask yourself why you did not act when you had the chance to prepare.
But the good thing is that everyday is a chance given to us to start again.