We all deserve to be loved. But "love" does not deserve to be trivialized. Manifestations of it like hugging and kissing can be done without love. And saying that a person is in love or not based on what our senses perceive is itself an act of judgement. A decade long spouses can fake their feelings just as another girl or guy can pretend for the same long period that she or he does not love that person they have been longing for. Love is abstract and can't be measured by math or science as much as we can't create a human law based on it. Let love be love.